I know there are the nice guys out there but unfortunatly the assholes out there out weight the nice guys by almost 95 percent..Which really sucks for those fellows who are out there, who want to settle down, and who are tired of trying to prove time and time again to a girl that they are worth it, but because of johnny come lately-dick prick asshole the girl is left gaurding her heart against the hurt and the heart break.
You know how a lot of times the hero portrayed in an movie is a big muscular Fabio looking guy..Well if you want the true ones that will save the day and be heros look for the nice guys..The ones that will put you on a pedestal, let you have your independance, love your for your flaws, your quirks, and your crazyness..They will be the ones to see you when you have no makeup on, your hair is a mess, and your still in your p.j's after being sick for a week with the flu and say "Baby your beautiful"
I have found that the guys that are assholes are the ones that are usually stuck on themselves and think they are god's gift to a woman.
I had a guy and he was not your typical momma's boy he used her for everthing she had, money, to do his laundry, cook his food, transportation, everything, he had no job and smoked, and drank to much and she would sit there holding his hand letting him live at home and say"oh baby it is all right i wont let that big bad world hurt you" FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GET OVER IT. He has to learn sometime that it hurts to fall on your ass but you get up and try it again.. It is called life.Well she always told me that I was never good enough for him, I wasnt a barbie, I would only hurt him.
Well guess what I did hurt him, no im not a barbie, and i was not good enough for him...Why you ask..because I was to good for him, he didnt want a equal, or a girlfriend, he wanted a sex slave a maid to clean up after him while he went out and screwed most of the city. Which by the way he did and now he has a baby..Opppsss..So that is what they invented condoms for. I have one thing to say to that...HAHAHA DUMBASS.
I now am free to live my life and accomplish those dreams that i have had for so long but was not able to do because someone was holding me back.. Well now he can figure out with a girl and 2 kids how to take his hunting, fishing, and vacations, he can figure out how to still race cars and drink with his buddies with some bitch behind him nagging that the kids need something.. HAHA Oh well that is the path he choose not me.. So to my ex the ass that i was with for 4 years..god the light at the end of that tunnel was far...thanks for setting me free..thanks for loving me..all though im sure you didnt, thanks for kickin my ass to the curb to be with her..IT WAS THE BEST THING YOU COULD EVER DO TO ME..THANK YOU.
well back to the nice guys... you guys rock you are the ones that make it all worth it..I know that i was blind for so long like many other women, but please dont lose faith in us girls just yet..we eventually see the light and you guys will be the first ones we run too to help us mend our broken hearts. Well i have ranted long enough..To everyone who reads this.Please believe. :)
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If you have or haven't check out two of her books - 'Ten Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives' and 'Proper Care adn Feeding Of Husbands'
I think you might like these and find more hope in men. It seems as though you know well of males not men.
Be good and safe.
SMILE
R.E. Knowlton III